The Impact On Children Who Parents Are Alcoholics Or Drug Addicts / Educational Video PSA
The Impact On Children Who Parents Are Alcoholics Or Drug Addicts / Educational Video PSA. Children in families experiencing alcohol or drug abuse need attention, guidance and support. They may be growing up in homes in which the problems are either denied or covered up. These children need to have their experiences validated. They also need safe, reliable adults in whom to confide and who will support them, reassure them, and provide them with appropriate help for their age. They need to have fun and just be kids. Families with alcohol and drug problems usually have high levels of stress and confusion. High stress family environments are a risk factor for early and dangerous substance use, as well as mental and physical health problems. It is important to talk honestly with children about what is happening in the family and to help them express their concerns and feelings. Children need to trust the adults in their lives and to believe that they will support them. Children living with alcohol or drug abuse in the family can benefit from participating in educational support groups in their school student istance programs. Those age 11 and older can join Alateen groups, which meet in community settings and provide healthy connections with others coping with similar issues. Being ociated with the activities of a faith community can also help. Dependence on alcohol and drugs is our most serious national public health problem. It is prevalent among rich and poor, in all regions of the country, and all ethnic and social groups. Millions of Americans misuse or are dependent on alcohol or drugs. Most of them have families who suffer the consequences, often serious, of living with this illness. If there is alcohol or drug dependence in your family, remember you are not alone. Most individuals who abuse alcohol or drugs have jobs and are productive members of society creating a false hope in the family that “it’s not that bad.” The problem is that addiction tends to worsen over time, hurting both the addicted person and all the family members. It is especially damaging to young children and adolescents. People with this illness really may believe that they drink normally or that “everyone” takes drugs. These false beliefs are called denial; this denial is a part of the illness. Alcoholism and other drug addiction have genetic and environmental causes. Both have serious consequences for children who live in homes where parents are involved. More than 28 million Americans are children of alcoholics; nearly 11 million are under the age of 18. This figure is magnified by the countless number of others who are affected by parents who are impaired by other psychoactive drugs. Alcoholism and other drug addiction tend to run in families. Children of addicted parents are more at risk for alcoholism and other drug abuse than are other children. Children of addicted parents are the highest risk group of children to become alcohol and drug abusers due to both genetic and family environment factors. Biological children of alcohol dependent parents who have been adopted continue to have an increased risk (2-9 fold) of developing alcoholism. Recent studies suggest a strong genetic component, particularly for early onset of alcoholism in males. Sons of alcoholic fathers are at fourfold risk compared with the male offspring of non-alcoholic fathers. Use of substances by parents and their adolescent children is strongly correlated; generally, if parents take drugs, sooner or later their children will also. Adolescents who use drugs are more likely to have one or more parents who also use drugs. The influence of parental attitudes on a child’s drug taking behaviors may be as important as actual drug abuse by the parents. An adolescent who perceives that a parent is permissive about the use of drugs is more likely to use drugs. Public Service Announcement from SAMHSA in the public domain. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services; Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration; Center for Mental Health Services; Center for Substance Abuse Prevention; Center for Substance Abuse Treatment
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September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
bless you and hang …
bless you and hang in there, I know your pain……my parents drinking and the dysfunctional relationships STILL haunt me as a middle aged adult, I live in a small town and everyone crosses paths with everyone at one time or another…there were not alot of boundaries, hence I curtailed my life and social life also because of my parents drinking and even overlooked my life..I am angry and in therapy……..
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
I’m sorry to hear …
I’m sorry to hear this. My father has a problem with alcohol and my whole family is in denial that he has any sort of problem. It was unfair I felt for him to take his double-talk and passive aggressive language out on me. I have found my emotional center now so it doesn’t matter anymore. He was once a genius, but he destroyed his brain on alcohol, and I have “usurped” him at his own pathetic game. It is really sad.
The emotions are too much for me to bare sometimes. Anger, mainly hate.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
LOL Thanks.
It’s …
LOL Thanks.
It’s all good!
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
sorry bout my …
sorry bout my earlier comment, i was in a bad mood and lashed out. Sorry.
Nice lawn btw
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
Don’t see what you …
Don’t see what you mean by me crying about anything.
But anyway. Good for you.
I was talking about taking control of myself.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
why do you cry …
why do you cry about this and blame it on your parents? I was raised by my mother who started drinking daily when i was around 7.. I’m now 19 and i only drink at parties, cause i’m not making excuses but taking control..
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
I was raised by …
I was raised by loving alcoholic parents.
They loved me very much but didn’t see how it was affecting the family. My Father died when I was 10 of alcholism and my Mother passed away two years ago. She had quit drinking but became an enabler to me.
I drank more then ever after she died. Got a DUI and lost my job.
I have quit drinking though. Been sober for several months now. No AA or anything. Just had to take control of the only person I can, Myself.
Can’t say family or friends helped either.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
I was raised by …
I was raised by alcoholics and let me tell you it is . I now drink everyday almost all day and I believe it was a lack of direction from parents and being totally bored everyday as a child because i couldnt go anywhere cause they wouldnt drive drunk. Its a horrible way to live but atleast im not going to ever have a child if i continue to drink everyday im not that stupid.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
can some one help …
can some one help me cite this in MLA format??? thanks
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
woodstyleah, it’s …
woodstyleah, it’s not productive to attack people personally because they have a different opinion than you do. I had a reasonably good childhood, raised my own children without asking for anything, and am quite comfortable now even in this bad economy. However, I worked in social services for 30 years and have seen that the government gets very little in exchange for the millions it doles out to “needy” families except a bunch of messed up kids who start the cycle all over again.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
I’m sorry that you …
I’m sorry that you were discarded as a child, not that you have told us that. If you were not discarded as a child than you need to get off your high horse right now. Are you mad at the economy? I am. Or are you just angry that you can’t afford pizza rolls anymore? I seriously picture you as fat and miserable and I’m sick of giving my money to the fat and miserable. I’d so rather give my money to babies.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
Right, you made …
Right, you made sense with this post because I’ve never known of a doctor, nurse or daycare personal to do wrong, ever. You should read more. I can’t think of another job more important than raising a kid either but at least I have common sense.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
Teachers have to …
Teachers have to meet certain intelligence and educational requirements in order to get a job, as do doctors, nurses, day care personnel. I can’t think of a job more important than having 24/7 responsibility for another persons life – in other words, being a parent – so why shouldn’t people have to prove they have some ability to do that job before they’re allowed to have it?
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
Seriously, how do …
Seriously, how do you propose that we have laws for that? Having to meet minimum intelligence levels sounds very much Nazi like to me and pretty scary. You sound like Hitler! You have to have money saved up to have a kid? Yeah because rich people never treat their children bad. It’s like you are talking out your or something.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
Same way you stop …
Same way you stop people from committing rape, window peeping, walking around naked and smoking pot….. We could require that all girls have an implanted contraceptive as soon as they’re old enough to conceive, and they would be required to renew it when necessary until they can meet stated requirements such as testing negative for drugs, having attained a certain level of education, having worked for a specified amount of time, and having passed a psychological test.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
It would not be so …
It would not be so difficult to cut down on the number of irresponsible / drug addicted people who become parents if we as a society stopped espousing the idea that everyone has the “right” to have a child regardless of whether or not they can be a good parent, and if we stopped throwing money at every high school drop out who becomes pregnant without ever checking to see how the money is being spent and without doing periodic drug screens.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
And how many drug …
And how many drug addicts / alcoholics teach their children to have compassion for others? When children are raised by someone who’s primary relationship is with a drug, they are neglected, ignored, abused, and learn early on to become just like the parents who raised them – indifferent to the feelings and needs of others,
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
cubboy1997, I am …
cubboy1997, I am glad to hear that your family is doing better and congratulations on your good grades! Regards…
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
my dad’s an …
my dad’s an alcoholic and so was my mom.they both quit doing drugs my mom quit drinking im pretty sure and my dad’s going to AA meetings i’m glad my mom gave me to my grandmother.i’m a straight a student now.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
what kinds of psych …
what kinds of psych. issues do u have if u dont mind me asking.. im doing some research right now on children of alcoholics right now
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
How do you propose …
How do you propose to “stop” one who is unfit from having kids?
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
My child was born …
My child was born with Smith-Magenis Syndrome. I did NOT drink or do any drugs at all when I was pregnant with her. Her dad left when she was 2. I found myself self-medicating with alcohol to where it became a huge problem. I am sober now and still raising my child (8), but it is hard. To say that people should have to prove they are fit before they have children is absurd, and must come from someone who can’t have kids or is extremely bitter.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
WolfSyndrome… not …
WolfSyndrome… not always babies having babies in alcoholic homes. My parents were married 7 yrs when I was born (first child). My mom was 30 and my dad was 35. So you cannot generalize the problem. It’s something that affects all social classes, races, nationality, ages, etc.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
Lots of life …
Lots of life experience has made my views extreme. We, as a society, offer financial incentives for 16 year old drug addicts to get pregnant in order to get out of their parents houses and into subsidized housing. We give them monthly stipends which they use to buy drugs while the kids are neglected and scarred for life. Our misguided attempts to help merely perpetuate the problem. People should not be allowed to have kids until they’re capable of raising them properly. We owe kids that.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:22 am
You don’t sound …
You don’t sound like you have too much experience in life. I understand your thinking but what your saying is nearly unrealistic. A lot of issues can happen after a child is born. The most important thing to teach any person young or old is to have compassion for others. In this way a child acheives in the spiritual realm which is really the most powerful one. As far as money, the most powerful people I know are the ones who were poor when they were a child.